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            links   ALTERNATIVE HOMESTAYS

 

Tawse Button

Tawse Manor Home Stay with a difference located in rural North Canterbury

 

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ENGLAND

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U b e r    Homestay and Play-space in   Sydney Australia

 

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A free BDSM eZine offering information, education and
entertainment for today's dominant.

 

 

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     World-Wide Dungeon Hirers

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bdsm groups

Auckland BDSM Group

BOP BDSM Group

 

This is a new formed BDSM group MyLady and tame are associated with in the Bay of Plenty. Hold "a roving munch" alternately  in Tauranga, Rotorua,Whakatane and Taupo. To Join this group click on below

http://au.groups.yahoo.com/adultconf?dest=/group/BOPBDSM/

 

     Blissfully Bound Hamilton Group    

NZ BDSM Link

Whisperings BDSM Resource Site  

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OUR FAVOURITE STORES

Basement  - Leather Store and Gay Mens Club

Eagle Leather-Latex Galore

     High Jinx The Sexy Book shop

  

Leather Masters - Great site in USA

     Other Sites  

Auckland TG Sources-Transgender site 

Club LaFemmes-Social Club      Club Fun 4 All Swingers Club 

Dungeonnet

     FETBOT - Open directory for Fetish and BDSM sites.

Frugal Domme Bdsm Fetish site

Live It - Gayget It

        Kittens BDSM Toy room

     New Zealand Sites

New Zealand Pleasure- Adult Travel, Business & Entertainment

 NZS.com — New Zealand Web directory and search engine.

 
NZStays for all sorts of holiday accommodation in New Zealand

 

Pink Pages New Zealand Gay Lesbian Transgender Directory   

Skin Two Online - The Worlds Largest Fetish Community

 

attractions    Tauranga - Bay of Plenty is the "Centre to be"                      

TOURISM BAY OF PLENTY - Escape, discover, relax and experience. Tauranga and Mt Maunganui offer everything you need for a perfect holiday - sun, sand and sea as well as a cosmopolitan city where you can enjoy great shops, a fusion of cuisines and local wines. Also plenty of adrenalin-inducing thrills for adventure-seekers

New Zealand Tours Adventure Activities Tourist Attractions Sightseeing Cruises

BUTLER'S SWIM WITH DOLPHINS - Tauranga is world-famous for their classic dolphin experience.
Rotorua Leisure - Rotorua is only 35 - 45mins leisurely drive away - click on the above  for various thermal attractions. NZ's native art to a tee.

TAUPO ATTRACTIONS - Taupo is only 1-1/2 hours drive away - beautiful lake and bountiful attractions.

SKI MT RUAPEHU - Turangi - 3 hours drive away, winter months playground. Snow till you drop.

Hamilton City - Hamilton is around 1-1/4 hours drive away - check the site out for activities.

WAITOMO ADVENTURES (LTD) - In the heart of the King Country around 2-1/2 hours drive away, operates a range of REAL adventures for people wanting safe, quality fun in some of New Zealand's most special wild places. For more than 100 years the Glowworm Cave of Waitomo has attracted millions of people from all over the world. A small glowing insect no bigger than an average mosquito has fascinated and intrigued people from all walks of life. In an average year, 400,000 people travel to Waitomo to experience the trip of a lifetime. Well laid out scenic tracks through beautiful native bush surround the Caves, offer pleasant walks of varying distances, including blackwaterrafting. or jet boating on the Waikato River with Camjet

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bDSM Books - Literature we recommend

MyLady and tame have known Toya a New Zealand author for several years now and we have read and support all Toya's work. Toya writes from the heart her experiences insight travels along her journey in the scene with her Master.  The following books Toya has published from  2001 - 2003

Bound Owned                      Reflections of a Submissive                Subspace - The Journey of a Submissive

The Story of O by Pauline Reage This is a beautifully crafted bit of erotic literature which is considered by many to be the classic S/M novel. It deals with a woman named O, and her life as a slave to her masters and mistresses.

The Loving Dominant by John Warren  Everything you need to know about an infamous sexual variation, and an unspoken type of love. ...A long-time player in the dominance/submission scene guides readers through this rarely seen world, and offers clear-eyed advice guaranteed to enlighten the most jaded erotic explorers. He reveals the hidden basis of the D/S relationship: the care, trust, and love between partners." An in-depth treatment of S/M, including mental aspects, style, fantasy, technical details, a great handbook, especially for a dominant.

Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns by Philip Miller and Molly Devon  One of the better instructional/overview S/M books, lots of technical info (with illustrations and photos) on bondage, leather, knot tying, whipping, spanking, promises and pitfalls of dominant-submissive relationships, and the real-life S/M scene. There is also an extensive Appendix containing a suggested reading list, as well as listings of support groups, computer bulletin boards, suppliers of equipment, and books.
 

SM 101 by Jay Wiseman  A heterosexual man who is a long-term veteran of the American SM scene, goes into depth in the attempt to present a comprehensive introduction SM and all of its many facets: technique, safety, psychological/emotional issues, finding a partner, relationships, the subculture, etc. This book offers the newcomer an opportunity to learn from a person with years of accumulated experience as an SM practitioner.

The Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Catherine A Liszt  The how's and whys of playing the dominant role written by two experienced players. Sections include: What do tops do?, How do you learn?, S/M ethics, Wild scenes we have known, If it doesn't go the way you planned, Toys, Where all the bottoms are, and Shadow play.
 

Mistress Manual by Mistress Lorelei The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance. A great book from an experienced practitioner. The main sections are: Becoming a Mistress (including chapters on Why Become a Mistress, The Reluctant Mistress, Maintaining your Relationship); The Mistress in Action (includes Asserting Your Dominance, The Art of Discipline); The Five Archetypal Fantasies (The Nursemaid, Governess, Queen, Amazon, and Goddess); and Ten Rules for a Successful Mistress.

The above books can be purchased from JT's Stockroom.

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